Update...

Sorry I had to go private on you all!

So far...

Lil's Grandma was a "no show" at our visit yesterday. She cancelled the visit the week before and two weeks before that. She's cacelled visits more than showed. Interesting....

Apparantly I slipped up and mentioned that the SW had filed for termination, to the Grandma. I guess I lit a fire. I didn't even know that she didn't know. Boy, do I have a lot to learn about this system and how SW play their cards. By me saying that, she told her daughter and son-in-law and that is why they are so gungho about getting involved in all the services all of the sudden.

With that said, after the May hearing the Judge will most likely tell the BP that they have 6 mo of services to do. But, we'll be going to court before then for the termination hearing. The SW is thinking that is will be Sept or Oct.

The birth parents are pulling out all of stops lately. If Lil has a red mark on her bum, they report it as a nasty diaper rash. They've been complaining that her nose has been crusty too. Hello...she's teething!
Coincendentaly, Lil just got a diaper rash a few days ago (we think from peaches) so I had the SW come over and look at it this morning before Lil's visit.

It makes me sad that we have to watch our every move for the next 6 mo or so. I am motivated to keep my house clean incase the GA stops over for an unexpected visit, which she did the other day. The last time she was here my house was in dissaray, very cluttered, I was in my robe & I still had Rose. Needless to say, it wasn't a good impression on her.
So, she decided to come by unannouced the other day. Thankfully, I was supposed to have playgroup at my house that morning and had cleaned so well the night before. So, she saw a much cleaner house and I was dressed and not so frazzled.

That's about all I can say for now. This really sucks and I hate going through this crap. I can't wait if/when this is all over and Lil's OUR daughter for good.